Shoonyin's Diary

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 A few days ago, I saw an article by Dr. S.C. Sung, a neurologist in Chiayi, who wrote 22 reminders for his future self who might suffer from dementia. It moved me deeply. Dr. Sung has long served dementia patients and understands their plight well. Therefore, he used his professional perspective to write down how he hopes his family will treat him if he loses his memory one day. This article has circulated widely online, and many people said they were moved to tears after reading it. But I think what truly touches people is that it teaches us how to treat someone who is "still alive, but slowly returning to childlike innocence." If everyone could read it at least once, perhaps we would be a little gentler towards our parents, our partners, and each other. Below is Dr. Sung's full text (22 points), worth reading carefully.【Dr. S.C. Sung: If I One Day Lose Dementia】(Full Text) My dearest family: If one day I develop dementia, please hang this message on the wall of my room...

  Seventy is an important node in life. From any perspective, people over seventy are considered old. At this point, the gorgeous sunset is approaching the horizon, and the colorful life is also coming to an end. According to official public data, only 44% of all natural persons can cross the threshold of seventy and turn around to walk on the road to eighty. Seventy to eighty is a difficult decade in life, and it is an eventful period of life in old age.  This interval will experience accelerated ageing, and all organs are irreversibly degenerating and wearing out, just like a machine that is about to be scrapped but is still running slowly. This period is the outbreak period of many diseases. Due to the reduction and mutation of the human immune ability, it is difficult to effectively resist the invasion of bacteria and viruses. Minor illnesses often occur, and major illnesses are coming at any time. It is a normal situation. During this period, due to the slow reaction of t...

 *𝐑𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐓𝐨𝐨𝐥𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐋𝐢𝐟𝐞* 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐤𝐢𝐭𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐭𝐚𝐩 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐠𝐚𝐢𝐧. 𝐖𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐚 𝐬𝐢𝐠𝐡, 𝐈 𝐜𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐝 𝐚 𝐩𝐥𝐮𝐦𝐛𝐞𝐫._ 𝐀 𝐟𝐞𝐰 𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐮𝐭𝐞𝐬 𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐫, 𝐚 𝐦𝐢𝐝𝐝𝐥𝐞-𝐚𝐠𝐞𝐝 𝐦𝐚𝐧 𝐰𝐚𝐥𝐤𝐞𝐝 𝐢𝐧 — 𝐜𝐚𝐥𝐦, 𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐚𝐝𝐲, 𝐜𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚 𝐟𝐚𝐝𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨𝐨𝐥𝐤𝐢𝐭._ 𝐈 𝐰𝐚𝐭𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐝 𝐡𝐢𝐦 𝐚𝐭 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤. 𝐇𝐞 𝐩𝐮𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐝 𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐚 𝐰𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐡 - 𝐢𝐭 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐜𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐤𝐞𝐝 𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐥𝐞._ _“𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐢𝐱 𝐚𝐧𝐲𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭?” 𝐈 𝐰𝐨𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐝 𝐬𝐢𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐥𝐲._ 𝐇𝐞 𝐝𝐢𝐝𝐧’𝐭 𝐬𝐞𝐞𝐦 𝐛𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐝. 𝐖𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐚 𝐪𝐮𝐢𝐞𝐭 𝐟𝐨𝐜𝐮𝐬, 𝐡𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐠𝐚𝐧 𝐥𝐨𝐨𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐢𝐩𝐞. 𝐀 𝐫𝐮𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐜𝐮𝐭 𝐨𝐟𝐟. 𝐇𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐝 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐨 𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐛𝐚𝐠 𝐚𝐠𝐚𝐢𝐧 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐩𝐮𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐝 𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐚 𝐬𝐦𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐬𝐚𝐰 - 𝐡𝐚𝐥𝐟 𝐨𝐟 𝐢𝐭 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐦𝐢𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠 !_ _𝐍𝐨𝐰 𝐈 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐬𝐮𝐫𝐞. 𝐈’𝐯𝐞 𝐜𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐫𝐨𝐧𝐠 𝐦𝐚𝐧 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐭?...

 Shoonyin's Diary. Today is Year's Eve. 2025 is coming to a close, and many people will be celebrating the New Year at home with their families. There is no choice to who you want to be your relative or family, but there is a choice in choosing not to forget and to choose not  to be "out of sight  and out of mind" especially those still at home and many that are living alone or without family; those in nursing homes or without anyone around to give them the warm fussy feeling and the companionship , comfort and encouragement.  Once, one of my elder sisters said to me  "Actually, I don't  ever think about you people in Miri or worry about you people" . That was the saddest moments of my life. I remembered for many years, especially when my mother was sick , later when my father was living alone, and my son was not around, my new year dinner was just a McDonald's Cheeseburger and a can of coca cola drink  sitting alone in front of a small television sc...

  Shoonyin's Diary Today, my church celebrates the Feast of the Holy Family. The Feast of the Holy Family doesn't necessarily mean a perfect family, but rather a place where people support and serve one another. The Roman Latin word for "family" is "Familus," which means to serve. I remembered when my mother was sick, my father would call me to his office several times a day for even very trivial matters, like when my mother needed a diaper change. I would always patiently tell him that I was attending clients and could not  just leave the office. Besides, my boss was very difficult; if I asked to leave the office, she would yell at me. At other times, my father would call to say that my mother needed to see a doctor at the clinic. I would tell him that I could only pick her up during my lunch break. Fifteen minutes later, he would call again and said the same thing. In the end, I could only arrange for my older sister to pick them up, and then I would wa...

 Shoonyin's Diary  Christmas has always been inseparable from Christmas trees, decorations, and gifts. I remember that year, my father told me he wanted to become a Christian and asked me to contact my brother to arrange for a pastor to mentor him. The year after his baptism, I arranged for him to spend his first Christmas at home with all his grandchildren in Miri. The house was decorated with a large Christmas tree, ornaments, and gifts. That was also the first and last time I planned Christmas for him and his grandchildren. Later that year, my mother had a stroke, and I was busy with daily chores and had no time for anything else. Moreover, I was very poor at the time and had to work overtime every day just to barely earn some money. I was not a devout Christian, but the Buddha's teachings had always resonated with me. A poor man asked Buddha: Why am I so poor? Buddha said: You have not learned to give to others. Poor man: How can I give when I have nothing? Buddha: A perso...